When I first started writing this blog, I had wrote a post on 5 things that surprised me after giving birth to my daughter. They included what my stomach looked like, people asking if she was a boy or a girl and a few others. So when I gave birth to my son, I thought “Hey, I know what it will be like.” Wrong-O! Like every pregnancy is different, every post-pregnancy is different too. So here are my new 5 Things That Surprised Me After Giving Birth.
- My Skin. All throughout my pregnancy with the Rainbow, my skin was perfect. Nary a blemish to be had. As soon as he graced us with his presence, my skin went haywire. I started breaking out in full on teenage zits. Every day there would be new ones and I would be saying “What the hell is going on.” Turns out, hormones are to blame and my doctor said once we stop breastfeeding it will all clear up.
- My Hair. After my daughter was born, hair fell out. I could run my fingers through it and cat sized hair clumps would be in my hands. My stylist said that was normal so I this time I braced myself for the inevitable hair loss. Nope. This time my hair didn’t fall out. It went greasy beyond belief. Need oil for your car? Not to worry, come take some from my hair free of charge. Again pesky hormones are to blame.
- Weight Loss. I gained a whopping 40 lbs with my daughter and lets just say I still have that baby weight hanging on like a bad boyfriend. However, with my son, I was back to my pre-pregnancy weight within a week. Granted I only gained approximately 10 lbs with him but I lost it fairly easily and quickly.
- My Appetite. After my daughter was born, I found my appetite diminished. Perhaps because I was adjusting to life as a new Mom that I barely remembered to eat. The complete opposite with my son. Good Lord, as soon as I gave birth I was begging for food. I have never been so damned hungry before in my life. All day I am hungry. If I don’t eat, I get what I like to call “hangry.” A cranky mix of hungry and angry. I chalk it up to breastfeeding a very hungry little boy. Breastfeeding can burn up to 800 calories a day so I am blaming the increased appetite on that.
- The Recovery Time of a Second C-Section. I’ve had 2 c-sections and I was luckily given advice from my aunt that post surgery, try to get up and stand straight up as soon as possible. With my daughter, it took my a least a month to be feeling somewhat normal. My scar took forever to heal, but I only had 1 baby to worry about so my days were fairly easy going. When I had my son though, I was feeling back to normal within 10 days. The nurses gave me grief at the hospital because I had my surgery at midnight and by noon I was asking them to unhook me and let me get up and move around. Generally for a c-section you have to stay 3 days in the hospital, I was released after 1 day. I was still slow moving the first week, but I was healed up by that Friday. It still sucked going from laying down to standing up for about a week, but with my second c-section, I was up and going pretty quick. I think it was because I had 2 children to chase after.