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Long gone are the days of doing my laundry once a week. Now the laundry pile seems never-ending and the cost is exorbitant. Chatelaine created a list of Eight Ways to Save Money on your Laundry and I have shortened the list below and added a few of my own.
- Use Cold Water. Using warm or hot water accounts for up to 90% of the laundry cost, so using cold water is the more economic option. However, sometimes you may need to use hot water to get those potty accident stains out.
- Use a clothes line or drying rack. Not using the dryer will save you money as well as it is a better option for the environment. If you live in an apartment, drying racks save on space as well as money. You can find inexpensive ones from Ikea or home furnishing stores.
- Use coupons. The cost of detergent, fabric softener and dryer sheets can really add up, and they don’t always go on sale. Using coupons either from in store promotions or sites like P&G Saver can help cut down on the cost. It may only be $0.50 – $1.00 here and there, but over time, it really adds up.
- Make your own detergent. This may not be for everyone, but making your own detergent will be greener, both for the environment and your wallet. TLC Home has some great detergent recipes.
- Rewear your already worn clothes. My mother used to preach to me about putting clothes away that were only lightly worn. This doesn’t mean underwear, but if you wear a shirt or pants for a short period of time and they aren’t dirty, fold them up and put them away. This will cut back on the loads of laundry you will have to do.
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It may not be to the extent of the Baby Boom that happened after the Second World War, but now the average child per woman is 1.7, up from 1.5, marking the biggest boom since 1946. Yahoo Canada reported that since 2006, the number of wee ones under the age of 4 is up 11%. Demographers argue that this is due to an increase of women in their prime “child-bearing” years and this boom also has its benefits; an impact on policies such as building more schools, daycares and parks, and more taxpayers to support the growing senior population!
I am a working mom. I took a little time after coming off Maternity Leave before going back to work full-time, going back when she was 18 months. I worked part-time nights on the weekend after my leave ended. I thought 1 year was not yet old enough for me to be apart from her. You only get some much time with them, I wanted to make sure that I made the most of the time. But eventually, I needed to go back. I noticed that when talking with other adults, the only thing I could talk about was the Princess. I was up-to-date on developmental skills and the latest children’s toy, but as for fashion, gossip and news, I was lacking. After discussing it with the hubby, I made the decision to go back to work. On any given day, this is what my day looks like;
- 5:30 am – Hubby goes to work, the Princess crawls into bed with me until we have to get up to start our day
- 6:30 am – I get to enjoy my breakfast
- 7:00 am – The Princess has risen and “FEED ME” is the first thing she bellows. Treehouse goes on the television, her breakfast is eaten and I begin sorting out our clothes, feed our cat (Remi) and 2 parakeets (aptly named Alfred and Hitchcock after my favourite movie, “The Birds”)
- 7:20 – 8:10 am – We shower, brush our teeth, brush our hair get dressed, run around hectically, search for lost shoes, and one last potty trip
- 8:20 am – Wait for our bus to come
- 8:30 am – Our bus arrives and we’re on our way
- 9:00 am – We arrive at her daycare, shoes are changed, kisses and hugs goodbye are exchanged and I am begin walking back to the subway
- 9:15 – 9:50 am – I am on the subway for my daily commute to work. This is the time where I get to read. As I am an avid reader, I am doing the Goodreads 2012 Reading Challenge and I’m currently reading “The Handmaid’s Tale” by Margaret Atwood
- 10:00 am – 5:30 pm – I am slaving away to “The Man”. My lunch is used to update Hubby on dinner, complain about our days, and ask what the plan is for the rest of the night
- 5:35 – 6:15 pm – I’m commuting home
- 6:30 pm – Dinner starts (Hubby picks up the Princess at 5 pm so as he’s home first, he starts dinner)
- 7:00 – 7:30 pm – Quiet family time, for example colouring, reading, etc
- 7:30 – 8:00 pm – Shower time for the Princess
- 8:15 pm – Bedtime along with hugs and kisses and a bedtime read
- 8:30 pm – dinner dishes begin and a quick tidy
- 9:00 pm – 10:00 pm – Relaxation
- 10:00 pm – Mommy and Daddy bedtime
Now this the presumed schedule we have set up, but that’s not to say that sometimes there aren’t a few bumps in the road. Sometimes there are delays in the bus and subway, or work runs late for both Hubby and I, or the Princess gets sick at daycare and one of us has to go pick her up. In any given day, I get approximately 2 hours of relaxing time. Oh the joys!
The Princess and I have just safely returned from a weekend away where we visited family. We had taken advantage of MegaBus’ $10 deal and travelled 2 1/2 hours to Kingston. My sister and her husband live there and as hubby had to work all weekend, it was time for some Mommy-Daughter time. My husband and I try to stress the importance of individual one on one time. We like to do things as a family, but I think it is important that our princess spends time with each one of us individually.
On Friday, we packed up all our things and with Daddy in tow, we made our way to the Toronto Bus Terminal. It seems as though I have finally learned to only pack what we need to reduce our luggage. I’m definitely one of those “just in case” kind of packers. This time we only had 1 small suitcase and a large carry on. The Princess was given her child gravol to stave off any motion sickness that she is sometimes subject to, snacks and items to keep her occupied for the journey. Nothing makes a long journey longer than vomit and a bored child. When it was time to board, we gave kisses to Daddy and found our seats. The one thing I really enjoy about the MegaBus is that it is sometimes a double-decker and Princess loves sitting at the front on the very top.
Our visit in Kingston was a success. With no full-fledged meltdowns, a visit with a friend, sprinklers, pools and a sandbox, Princess and I had a wonderful weekend with family. We are finally home and now we are having some cuddle time while watching a good movie. It’s these moments that I love whole-heartedly and I cannot wait for another Mommy-Daughter date.
Allrecipes.com is one of my favourite sites for recipes and cooking ideas. I came across a Mojito recipe and gave it my own little twist by substituting raspberries for strawberries and taking some of the suggestions from fellow reviewers. I have aptly named it “Momjitos”.
- White Sugar for the rim, although coloured sugar gives it an aesthetic appeal
- 1 large lime, quartered
- 1/2 bunch of mint leaves
- 1/2 cup of sugar
- 2 cups of mashed raspberries
- 1 1/2 cups of lemon juice
- White rum
- Lemon Lime pop drink (or club soda, depends on your preference)
- Ice cubes
- Pour 1/4 inch of sugar in a shallow dish. Run a lime quarter around the rim of each of the glasses, dip into the sugar and set aside.
- To create the simple syrup, mix 1/2 cup of sugar, 1 1/2 cups of lemon juice and 2 cups of mashed raspberries, bring to a boil, then simmer for 3 minutes, remove from heat, strain through a cheese cloth and let cool.
- Add 2 tbsp of simple syrup to each glass then add mint and remaining lime, and muddle.
- Add 1 shot of rum, top with lemon lime drink and ice and stir. Enjoy!
Makes 4 glasses
I love being a Mom. I take pride in being a good parent and watching my daughter grow into the person she is becoming. It’s one of my greatest achievements. I live it, breathe it, being a mom is as closely tied to my personal identity as being a grown, adult independent woman. I could talk all day and night about the things my daughter does, says, thinks and acts. When I say she is my life, I am far from exaggerating. So I have compiled a list of my Top 5 Reasons Why It’s Great to be a Mom!
- Creating life beyond my own. I remember clearly the day my daughter was born. Despite the haze and sedation of the anaesthesia, when I looked at her for the first time and saw her looking back at me, it was the single most awe-struck moment of my life. I counted her 10 little fingers, her 10 little toes, and could only mutter “Isn’t she the most beautiful baby you have ever seen?” I didn’t cry when I first saw her, I was speechless and in love.
- Being called “Mom.” Whenever I hear my daughter call me Mom, it’s like the password to my heart. My arms open immediately, a smile spreads across my face and I drop to her level so I can envelop her with my embrace. I prefer “Mom” to “wife” or “Miss, Ms and Mrs.”
- Getting to do all the fun kid stuff again. Now that my daughter is older, I am truly enjoying doing all the so-called kid stuff again. I love watching cartoons, running in the park just roll down the hill, going to splash parks and petting zoos. It’s like reliving your youth all over again. I especially love doing crafts.
- Reading bedtime stories. I am an avid reader and if there is one thing that I hope she carries on throughout her life, its reading. My daughter is building her collection of books and stories that she thoroughly enjoys and I love watching her face light up when I do the funny voices and her reaction to them. I try to imagine what ran through my head when my parents read to me and what must be going on inside hers.
- I have the World’s Best Daughter! No explanation needed.
Like most Mom’s, my daughter’s artwork is slowly taking over our home. I have a special box where I save the special items and have purchased picture frames to hang other pieces in her room. But the Mom I read about in The Star today makes my efforts look amateur at best.
Wendy Tsao, an entrepreneur in Vancouver, takes children’s drawings and turns them into stuffed animals. An idea spawned out of her child’s comfort, Tsao started Child’s Own Studio. When she first opened her home-based business, she was only receiving 3-4 orders a month, but since it has now gone viral, she has a backlog of 500-600 emails from interested parents! Goes to show what a litte ingenuity and hard work can do.
Spring has sprung and it seems that everyone and their neighbour are popping out babies! Nameberry.com has come out with a list of the Top Baby Name trends of 2012. I have to say I’m glad to see a shift from ridiculous names like “Like” after Facebook and names of insects such as Butterfly.
This year, letters “A” and “M” are topping the trends, as are floral names like Fleur, Iris, Ivy, and Scarlet. Biblical names are gaining popularity such as Gideon, Isaac, and James. Another trend this year, albeit unconventional, is adjectives, so be sure to look out for Ruby and Western. As long as the adjectives are not Ugly or Ridiculous, I’ll be ok.
Of course pop culture still has a grasp on the baby name trend and movies like The Hunger Games and Twilight are influencing parents to name their children after the main characters. Sometimes it seems that celebrities have more of a pull on the naming of our children than common sense does.
It will be interesting to see what names top the charts this year, but here are the top names so far.
Top Names for Girls
Top Names for Boy
Like most people, me and the family are enjoying the Victoria Day weekend, or most commonly known as May 2-4. The sun is shining, the birds are singing and we took our Princess for her first hike. I was completely oblivious but hubby said that there was actually a hiking trail near our home. A hiking trail in a major Canadian city? I was in disbelief. But any time for the three of us to spend time together is ok by me. I thought a picnic will be a great addition to our day.